burnin' like a candle...

For me, one of the hugest ways that God speaks to me is through music. Not just praise and worship music, but a lot of times through music that isn't necessarily intended to be about Him. Most recently I've seen Him in "Candle (Sick and Tired)" by the White Tie Affair.

"I took a ride on a February morning,
just getting over it and dealing with the mourning,
I started thinking out loud,
'I'm so sick and tired of being sick and tired...'"

Those words caught my ears. Sick and tired of being sick and tired... that's exactly how I was feeling. Who doesn't feel that way? With the daily grind of life... everything. Sick and tired of being sick and tired.

"My baby's flyin' off the edge of the road,
She's sayin', 'I'm so sorry about that note
that left me all alone...
But I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired'"

Isn't that how we feel sometimes?? When we're so sick and tired of everything, we just want to run away. Leave a note to everyone in our lives and just take off. I'd be lying if I said I haven't felt that way. Even recently. With feeling so drained and tired and not wanting to be doing what I am doing everyday (even though everything else in my life is going great) part of me just wanted to run. To get away from this mess of a "job" and escape it. Write a note to my loved ones and take off.

"Somebody turn the lights on, somebody tell me what's wrong
I'd be lying if I told you losing you was something I could handle
Somebody turn the lights on, somebody tell me how long
all this darkness will surround you, 'cause I'm burnin' for you
Burnin' like a candle..."

Those lines... the first one made me stop driving. Not only did I realize that I have an amazing man in my life who would indeed feel this way if I left, I also thought to myself... that leaving would mean abandoning what God has planned for me. And God loves me with an unfathomable, unconditional love... does He feel this way about me too??
The second one made my heart stop for a second. The man in my life is incredibly patient with me. He loves me and is seeing me through this difficult time that I'm in right now... But I know he's gotta be thinking this (or at least he has to have thought it at some point...) And I KNOW without a doubt that my God feels this way about me all the time. "I know this darkness is all around you right now, but I'm burning for YOU... I'm your light in the darkness..."

"Seven days since I've seen your face,
Seven nights I have laid to waste
I'm burnin' out now
I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired..."

Being away from the love of my life is sooo difficult. I know he feels this way about being away from me... so if my boyfriend feels that way about me... wouldn't God- the One who loves me deeper than I'll ever know- feel that way about being away from me, too? All those times when I push Him away or choose to spend my time doing other things... He's wasting away and burning out and sick and tired of being away from me....

"I know we're hanging at the end of the rope
We've flown too high, maybe swung too low
I heard her screamin' out loud
I heard her screamin' out loud..."

Times can be hard. Up and down. Too high. Too low. But my man is there with me, through it all. And he knows just when I'm feeling like it's too much to take. God fits that description as well, even moreso than the man in my life. Because He hears me whenever I cry out. He knows every tear I've ever cried, He's counted them all (and if you know me at all, that means A LOT of them)

You think I'm kidding around that this song is about God and His relationship with us? Check out the bridge...

"Think
of all the things that you say
what are the things that you mean?
what are the things that you say to me?
'cause
you're a tragedy
a queen for his majesty
all this blasphemy
your kingdom is crumbling..."

We're all a tragedy in God's eyes. Because we don't love Him the way He created us to.
But He's also the King of Kings. And we are the Bride of Christ. A queen for His Majesty. He makes us perfect to be united with Him through the death of Jesus Christ on the cross.
Blasphemy can be defined as "irreverent behavior toward anything held sacred, priceless, etc." ("blasphemy." Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Random House, Inc. 19 Mar. 2009. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/blasphemy>.) In that light... a lot of the ways we live our lives (especially reckless running away from everything...) is considered blasphemy. A lot of the worldly stuff we get ourselves tangled in... the sin... it's all blasphemy...
Any "kingdom" we create for ourselves falls apart when we come to know God and His kingdom- the everlasting one- that all those who love Him will get to be a part of someday...